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May was a month for remembering

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Amy Dickinson
May 29, 2023
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[Normandy, 2019]

It’s been a month.

I’ve attended four memorials this month, all for elders I’ve cared about who have died.

Some people reflexively avoid attending memorial services. My habit is to show up. When a person has lived a very long life, attending their memorial helps me to reframe my own sadness, as I try to focus on the privilege of knowing so…

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